Episode 12 - Adult Friendships: Messy, Weird, and Worth It

Why is making (and keeping) friends as an adult so hard?

In this episode of The Midlife Mud, Morgan and Chris get into the complicated world of adult friendships. From the seasonal besties to the awkward art of making new friends in your 40s, they're unpacking why friendship feels different now—and what to do about it.

They talk about the time crunch of adult life, the courage it takes to be the first to reach out, and why the best friendships often survive long silences. If you’ve ever felt lonely in a room full of people or wondered how to build real connection again, this one’s for you.

Key themes:

  • Why adult friendships are harder (and not just for you)

  • How to build new connections when you feel like the new kid at school

  • What makes a friendship truly deep—and how to keep it that way

Whether you're craving a better connection or trying to revive an old one, this episode is a reminder that you're not alone in the mud.

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